How Just 30 Minutes Will Blow You Away…
In a small town in Bali, the land of “Eat, Pray, Love”, I discovered a profound couples practice.
From the first 30-minute Journey I was blown away – I’d never experienced intimacy like that in my life. There was such love flowing back and forth between my partner and I! I knew right then: we had to have more of this.
Over the past year, I’ve witnessed hundreds of people come to Bali and practice Relationship Magic. Time and time again I’ve watched people in happy, stunned bliss – searching for words to share the deep intimacy and connection they feel. Often they share of breakthroughs and life-altering transformations, using words like “I’ve never…” and “For the first time in my life….”.
I’ve watched world-class tantra teachers like Margot Anand sit up after a Relationship Magic journey and share their surprise at the simplicity and power of this practice.
The best thing is – any couple can do it. You don’t need any experience with meditation or tantra. All you need is a quiet place to lie down, the ability to breathe, and a trusted guide to take you on your Journey.
Relationship Magic was making a huge impact on peoples lives, in such a short period of time, but people had to fly to Bali to experience it. I decided this should be available to all couples, everywhere, and this was a project worth putting all my passion into! So I partnered with creator David Cates to launch the Relationship Magic Audio Journeys.
Now in as little as 30 minutes a week, from the comfort of your own home, you can use Relationship Magic to:
- Revitalize your relationships
- Develop ninja communication skills
- Feel loved and understood
- Shower your partner with the attention and love she so desires
- Love your beloved in a way he can receive
- Enjoy touch in a safe, sacred container, without any pressure
- Learn how to share and honor your own boundaries
- Spark sensual and sexy time (More intimacy = better sex!)
- Feel more connected with your partner than you ever have before
- Feel safe – in ways you’ve never imagined
- Feel a deep sense of peace and bliss
- Create a safe space to share difficult conversations
- Disarm arguments quickly and with kindness
It’s a bold statement, but we really believe this can and will change your relationship, and your life.
This is the only practice we know that makes love as easy as breathing.
Download the Journeys, cozy up with your sweetheart, and prepare to dive into deep intmacy and transformative love.
In thirty minutes, you’ll be home again.
Just the two of you, hearts blown open, bodies tingling, happy to be alive.
What people are saying…
How to Play
Dedicate 30 uninterrupted minutes for you and your partner to get cozy in your bedroom. (That’s how long the average Relationship Magic Journey will last.) For optional bonus points, you may both decide to continue playing after the audio guide ends. 😉
If you wear clothes, make sure they’re comfy and loose. This isn’t a dress-up date night. (whew!) (Note: Going skin to skin is always more fun.)
Put on your favorite soft background music (super downtempo is best). Dim the lights (candles optional). Turn off your phones (you’ll be soooo glad you did!)
Start up your audio Journey, relax, and follow the easy suggestions.
Play, laugh, cry, love, embrace. There’s nothing to figure out. You can’t get it wrong.
You’ll be guided step by step into the deep magic of your own unique love connection.
The Relationship Magic Audio Program for Couples
This special package of TEN unique Journeys was developed by leading tantra and relationship educator David Cates.
These powerful audio sessions will have you both feel, in your bones, safer and closer than any other practice we have found.
In David’s own words, “Every couple, no matter how much they love each other, will bump up against their old fears and limits. That’s just human nature. We’ve all been hurt before.
“This program takes you deep into the body, and using a combination of ancient breathing practices and the latest neurobiological advances, effortlessly guides you past those fears, and into deeper connection.”
These ten Journeys are designed to take you through common roadblocks every busy couple faces – and “magically” dissolve those old survival habits into love.
The cost is US$97 – and if you don’t love the changes in your relationship and your life, we’d love to give you a complete refund.
Begin your Relationship Magic Journeys with this simple, potent practice. Everyone loves to be appreciated. Everyone loves to be reminded why they’re loved.
This Journey adds a new dimension to gratitude. Within minutes, your body will open so that every word reverberates deep inside.
How? Take the Journey and discover who you really are.
Bring the magic back into your relationship, with a breath and a word.
From Tension to Trust
It’s astonishing how much tension we carry in our bodies every day, often without realizing all the subtle ways this impacts our relationship. A body that’s in stress cannot feel love. Literally. You may know love, imagine love, assume love, be sure of love. But you’re not FEELING love.
The body must soften and relax before it can feel love flowing through every muscle and bone.
In this Journey, we give our bodies what they need to make the shift from tension to trust. You will learn three simple steps to unlock the nervous system, melt stress away, and FEEL love vibrating in every cell.
Then, when the love is flowing freely, you’ll remember again – in heart and soul and body – why you first fell in love.
This Journey is the easiest, most basic step-by-step guide to the connection practices at the heart of Relationship Magic.
Living together, and dealing with the daily chores, can quickly turn a great love affair into something that feels more like a business arrangement.
What to do? Sometimes it’s exhausting to sort everything out with words.
When you want a vacation from the ho-hum, but you don’t want to negotiate a whole big process – try this Journey. Simple touch. Tingly vulnerability. Feel-good warmth. Sweetness.
Recharge your emotional batteries with minimal effort, and no messy cleanup the next day. Sometimes “easy” really does it.
Two Bodies, One Rhythm
If each member of a band played their instrument in a different rhythm and key, the music would never come together. No matter how much you love each other… if your bodies are not in rhythm, if your heartbeats and brainwaves and breathing aren’t in sync, you’ll struggle to feel connected.
This Journey will show you how easy it is to find the natural rhythms at play in your body, and weave them together to make one dynamic song that will turn you both on.
Once this “bass line” is laid down, there’s no end to the effortless music you can make together.
Sometimes emotions are slippery, and hard to talk about. Some days you don’t have the energy reserves for a rollicking good romp in the hay.
But your bodies are vast wonderlands, deserving to be explored in detail. And that’s a whole new way to feel truly connected.
A great lover can play with sensations for their own sake, at leisure, and make every part of your body come alive.
When you’re curious to explore sensations together, take this Journey. Sex and emotion are great ways to connect, no doubt, but pure sensation is a vastly underrated playground too.
Through Each Other’s Eyes
Mostly I’m over here, in my body, having my experience. And you’re over there, in yours, having what’s often – surprisingly – a very different experience.
Good partners learn to “read” each other, and guess what’s happening under the skin. Sometimes this process is helped along by talking about an event after it’s done.
What might change if you could sync your experiences of each other in real time?
This Journey gives both of you the mind-blowing opportunity to “see through each other’s eyes”. And since you’re both in an open space of curiosity and love, it’s likely that your partner sees you more clearly and lovingly than you see yourself.
Upgrade your perceptions to the highest love, and relax into a beautiful shared reality.
Heal and Re-Open Your Hearts (Advanced)
Has your heart ever been broken? Have you ever been traumatized by sexual or romantic experiences? Of course you have! Sometimes we smother and cling; sometimes we play cool or run away – anything to avoid re-experiencing the pain that our bodies can’t seem to forget.
This Journey is designed to heal and re-open your hearts to the love that’s right in front of us. Please save it for a time when you both feel energized and willing to stretch your comfort zone. This is serious work… but for many couples, this is the Journey that shifts their relationship from good-enough to all-in awesome.
Release Old Hurts and Resentments
Sometimes we hold back speaking our full truth because we’re not sure how it will be received. These little withholds can build up and create distance between us. Sometimes when we try to speak our truth, we create a backlash. Things get worse instead of better. We both get lost in arguments.
But! When we relax and connect our bodies first, the words come easier. We can learn to speak from our hearts, about simple things, and not big complicated stories that generate hopelessness.
And most powerfully, we can agree that we will speak these fears not to hurt, but to refresh and deepen our connection. This Journey shows you how.
This is advanced magic for relationship ninjas!
It’s fun to rush into excited touch. However, there’s a surprising power when you hold onto the energy, let sensation build, and wait to move… until the movement takes over you both.
Here’s some advanced magic to explore together. This Journey takes you deeper into the body, where you can play with stillness and movement, subtle energy currents, surprising new wellsprings of sexual delight, and responding more fully and vulnerably to your lover’s touch.
Are you ready to amp up your lovemaking? Now that the skills you’ve been developing in this Relationship Magic series are becoming second nature, here’s how to turn up the volume and pacing. It’s Sexy Time!
This Journey moves you into deeper dimensions of passion and mutual surrender, opening the whole surface of the body and then taking each other all the way in. Emotional vulnerability is the key, pulsing back and forth between you, generating a feedback loop of ecstasy that grows bigger with each breath.
Just when you think it can’t get any better… It does! Over and over and over again…
“This practice is the most wonderful thing….we come out of it richer, more open, and grateful to be alive. I recommend it!”
Margot Anand, World Tantra Authority
“The most profoundly touching human experience.”
“One of the most extraordinary experiences of my life, which I will always remember. To purely see my self and the other……divine.”
“An incredible sense of oneness and connectedness……a safe space to open up, share, dance, breathe, and dive deeply into who we are.”
Get closer to your partner today.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is this about having sex?
A: Close, but not exactly. Relationship Magic is about emotional intimacy. When our hearts are open and our bodies are free, sex may naturally come up. But it’s not the first goal here.
Q: Are clothes on?
A: That’s up to you. The key is to be completely comfortable. If that means sweatpants and t-shirts, great. If it’s snuggling naked under the covers, that works too.
Q: How complicated are these practices?
The practices themselves are extremely simple. You’ll get a short training video to show you how to do the practice, and you’ll start with a very slow and easy introduction. David’s a master at breaking it down and pacing, and he’s successfully guided thousands of couples over his four-decade career. (To show how very simple these practices are: he’s recently developed a G-rated program for families to deepen their bonding, and we’ve found that kids as young as 5 can easily follow along.)
Q: Will my partner go for it?
A: You won’t know until you try 🙂 But we do everything we can to make it easy for you both. If both of you desire deeper connection, but don’t always know how to get there, or have trouble scheduling “us-time”, these guides may be just what you need. You don’t have to figure it out, or do it right. Neither of you has to lead. Many couples find it’s easier to move through new experiences when you’re both being guided, and all you have to do is follow along. And if your partner’s skeptical, have them listen to David’s explanation of the neuroscience behind the practices.